I'm pretty sure he's never worked with anything above 60Hz. What's a 100Hz monitor like for such a use case?
From 60 Hz to 100 Hz? No noticeable difference.
For a decade, i used to use 60 Hz TN panel monitor, until i got myself monitor upgrade to 144 Hz VA panel one. In games, i could hardly tell a difference (despite FPS also being 144). Games felt a bit smoother at times but no apparent or obvious difference regarding refresh rates. Biggest difference was going from TN panel to VA panel. Since i do image editing as a hobby, it was like day and night difference (especially due to much better contrast ratio).
Refresh rate wise, and on desktop/web browsing (or video editing), 1 Hz would be enough. Since no such monitor exists, then 30 Hz is more than enough. Same with 60 Hz. Actually, anything above 30 Hz is pointless for desktop use. Hell, most movies that you watch from TV or cinema run at 24 FPS (or 24 Hz).
So, unless your buddy plays fast-paced FPS shooters or racing sims, where high FPS (and in turn, high refresh rate) would be beneficial, 60 Hz panel does just fine.
Though, for video editing (or image editing), actual monitor panel type matters far more than refresh rate. I advise to stay clear of TN, IPS and OLED panels, while looking towards VA, QD-OLED or mini-LED panels. Mostly due to contrast ratio the former ones lack, but latter ones excel in (oh, OLED also has great contrast ratio but it suffers from burn-in issues and lack of brightness).
The trend is towards higher and higher refresh rates.
That's marketing for you.
Average human sees stuff between 30 Hz and 60 Hz. Trained human eye can see up to ~120 Hz or so. Anything above that (e.g 240Hz or 500Hz panels) is just placebo effect.